Memories of Dad

What comes to mind first when I think of my dad? His love of family.

Lincoln Malachi Reynolds was born in Cuba in 1928 and raised in Jamaica. He came to Canada in the 1950s to start a new life with his love Leonora.

What comes to mind first when I think of my dad? His love of family. I can’t even imagine how difficult the struggle was for my mom and my dad, raising four kids on one salary for many years. But it’s not the struggle that I remember. What I do remember is that I always had my dad close. When I look at pictures of my family, I see that his arm was always around one of us. I was the youngest of four, and the comfort and security was a huge help for me growing up and an example for me now that I’m raising my own family.

He wasn’t a man of many words but his actions showed how much he loved us. His commitment to work — 30 years as a research scientist at the Ontario Research Foundation in Mississauga —  garnered him a stellar reputation and allowed him to cultivate many lifelong friendships. He even crossed paths with Jamaica’s former prime minister, Michael Manley!

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Looking through suitcases of photographs has brought back so many wonderful memories of my late dad — his accomplishments, his hard work, but most of all what this trip down memory lane has shown me is what a loving family man Lincoln Reynolds was.

I need to keep these suitcases closer and open them up more. I guess the takeaway for me is that the memory of a wonderful father should never be hidden away. And If you are fortunate to still have a wonderful father around, make sure you keep him close.

(See if you can spot me in the family photos below!)