How to rekindle a relationship from a guy's perspective

Relationship expert Dr. Karyn Gordon asked men what would rekindle a romantic relationship, from their perspective.

1. Activity

Organize and participate in activities that one’s partner likes and that one normally wouldn’t do (sporting events, action movies, etc)
Museum and sports dates that are of mutual interest
Weekends away
Watching sports together
Date nights
Taking in a street festival together
Getting a gift he wants that’s outside of your comfort zone (e.g. Book a weekend away to see an NFL game and buy the tickets or reserve a table at a restaurant he would like.)

Surprise getaways
Surprising a partner by showing up to his office for an unplanned lunch
Mix it up. Throw your partner for a loop and do something together he doesn’t expect. Variety is exciting!

Connect regularly throughout the day. Pay attention to each other; body language can show a lot when it comes to frustration, worry, happiness and pride. Hold hands, smile, praise your partner. It builds and maintains the relationship.
Stop keeping score. It only builds resentment and makes your closest allies feel as if they’re in a competition.
Have a quality face-to-face conversation without any interruptions. Don’t underestimate how important it is to not only be heard but also to actually feel as if you’re being heard.
If women want romance, mood, time together? They will get it if the man gets appreciation, like a genuine thank you.

Time for extreme sports to let off steam to refocus mind and body
The freedom to do something on their own. Giving men space to enjoy themselves will bring them back closer!